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ELITE Three years of passion...
Three years of passion...
jurisprudence of marriage ii
Mohamed Elsawy, 3rd level, Economics
Mohamed Elsawy, 3rd level, Economics
It was reported in Muslim news that Umm women, except that Umm Salim did not feel
Salim, the wife of the companion Abu Talha pain in the heart of her husband, like a
al-Ansari, had their son Abu Umair sick, and mother no matter how many men she gives
then God passed away, so she prepared him, birth and they reach their strength, and God
washed him, shrouded him, registered a does not trample on them. He tied the heart
dress on him, and carved it on one side of the of Umm Salim with a patience that none of
house, then she made preparations for the the women of the worlds had attained. How
boy, he said to her, to receive her husband? could a bereaved son be adorned and
She said: His soul has calmed down and I beautified while her heart would be torn
hope that he has rested, so Abu Talha apart, had it not been for God to bind her
thought that the calmness of the boy would heart?!
be similar to recovery, so he went away, and You know that men are like trees in their
he was calm, and his wife prepared dinner, firmness and steadfastness, and women like
and she adorned and beautified other than flowers in their softness and prudence, and
what she used to adorn and beautify until he men with their hardness and wit, are the
spent his night in the best condition, and source of a woman’s strength, and women.
when he managed the night and became In with their vitality and meekness are the
the morning, Abu Talha got ready to go out source of his strength, from which is her
to the morning prayer behind the Prophet, strength. And life is with its happiness, its
peace be upon him, so his wife said to him: hardship, its bliss and its misery. There is no
O Abu Talha, what do you think about the virtue for both spouses if they do not
people who loaned the people of a usufruct cooperate in understanding it. Blessed are
gift, so they asked for their usufruct gift, may they, each stressing the other’s support to
they prevent them?! He said: No, she said, heaven, dwelling in it and dwelling in it,
God has borrowed his usufruct gift, so thank because it is not the mother or the sister, but
your God! in it is the mother’s care and the tenderness
The virtues of a woman inherent in of the sister, and he is not the father or the
motherhood reach their climax if she brother, but the father’s safety.
deceives a man with something of it! It is And the brother’s support, and both of them
true that men are more tolerant of pain than are families that shelter each other, a soul
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