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Holi da y Rul es
Why do you wait for tomorrow while

you can change right now? :The will to conquer
yourself

by : Bahey ELdin Ayman

I’m writing now at the end of 2020, which we were all been win to you, but all I want to do simply is to shed a light on
patiently waiting for (as if corona expires at the beginning of your potential to change your life with a simple, bold and
the new year) but anyway, I feel genuinely happy for the first eternal decision. As I said, I am writing at the year ’s end, and
time in a long time, even before 2019, I didn ’t feel this time all of us looking forward to making changes only with the
of freedom, energy, and back then I didn ’t feel like myself beginning of the New Year where someone wants to keep the
like I am right now. I ’m finishing this year with a satisfying habit of the daily five prayers, another wants to focus on
reorientation, against all odds, and all shifts I passed by this himself, do what makes him happy without caring about what
year (which in fact, most of us did ), but I ended the year with others think, and another person wants to start a new effective
a mental and psychological win. But don ’t get it twisted on diet, but all of this will only take place, at 12 Am on 1/1/2021
you, because my wedding isn ’t the next week, and I didn ’t According to the physics theorist ( Carlo Rovelli ), time is an
win a Lamborghini at the lottery, and I didn ’t even gain my illusion – and without going deep into this topic because I
Ph.D. certificate (yet). In fact, nothing externally happened to hate physics –but I approve of his theory from a humanitarian
the extent of make me feel a real change or happiness,
perspective, because making use of the new year as a
and also I didn ’t win any material gains that are worthy benchmark for a point a change is just an illusion, and in fact
enough to give me euphoria, but my happiness was a simple it ’s a trap most people fall in it (on purpose) to stay in their
decision, my happiness is summed up by my sacrifices, comfort zone, and we find that this idea is widely regarded by
giving my all, and my choices which tend to be temporarily most people, not just at this time of the year but its generated
painful. Re-energizing myself was the result of my fall to the from the general desire to procrastinate. In addition to
rock bottom and bouncing back again, it was coming from a physics, I hate motivation talks that are not built on a
light at the end of the dark tunnel my satisfaction, this year, is philosophical basis or even a compelling idea. In other words,
coming from my pride of myself above my parents, coming I hate toxic positivity, that ’s why I am not so much into
from my gratitude to God for protecting me and giving me encouraging you and shouting at your eardrums and tell you
the necessary power and wisdom to face life and choosing the that you can do whatever you set your mind to and you can
right paths. My happiness is not coming from a streak of radically change in the moment, because motivation is
successive wins, but from my appreciation of both wins and temporary anyway, and I won ’t ask you to stop reading the
losses, of both, joys and sorrows. It comes from my article and do a hundred push-ups and abstain from dinner to
admiration for the beauty of life, the beauty of its nature, and lose weight, and finish all your assignments tonight. But
the beauty of all kinds of art. It comes from my appreciation simply learn to love life and admire it, and with all stillness
of god s wisdom and my trust in him. My triumph was in my learn to give your attention to what deserves your attention,
self-love and raising its vibrations, it was in my perseverance and give less energy to what ’s not. It ’s a matter of priorities
to achieve my goals by any means necessary, whatever the and not a matter of discipline or negligence. Change requires
outcome. In fact, I am not a role model, I neither put a criteria sacrifices but it ’s not that complex or hard, it ’s just putting
to follow, or for the reader to adopt my ways and feel happy your priorities in order and channeling your energy to the
like me –let alone the idea of relativity in happiness – and right places which will contribute to your happiness and
what ’s considered a win to me doesn ’t necessarily mean a which will give meaning to your life.

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