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                                                                                Vol.1 No.25, Nov. 2020



























            Divorce : A Cost Paid By Kids



        BILAL GAMAL

        Third Level, Political Science

                                                              Third:   the   lack   of   interest  in  children   by   parents   :Sometimes,
                                                              the lack of attention to children by the parents  is  a  destructive
        Recently,   divorce  rates  have  increased  significantly,  This  is  for
                                                              tool   that   parents   give   their   children   without   realizing   it.
        several   reasons,   including   the   lack   of   understanding   between
                                                              Children begin to integrate into the circle of bad friends due to
        married couples, the lack of bearing the burdens of life, the lack
                                                              the   absence   of   people   to   talk   to,   In   addition   to   their   lack   of
        of   responsibility,   as  well  as  the  existence  of    problems  between
                                                                 containment   ,so   we   find   some   children   are   at   risk   of
        the   spouses   that   make   life   between   them   almost   impossible.
                                                              addiction,   abuse,   and   many   other   things   like   that,   due   to   the
        And many other reasons, They did not realize the seriousness of
                                                              lack of interest on the part of the parents in their children after
        the   step   that   they  had   taken,   and   they   did   not   pay   attention   to
                                                              divorce.   In  this  way,   by   making   this   decision,  the  parents  are
        what   would  happen  to  their   children.   The   children  here   are   the
                                                              putting their children's lives to ruin by their own hands.
        ones who will pay the largest share of the price of this decision.
                                                              Fourth:   The   behavior   of   children   is   affected   negatively   as   a
        In   fact,   the  decision   to   divorce   or   separation   has   many  serious
                                                              result   of   divorce:   as   the   problems   and   conflicts   that   occur
        consequences   on   children,  as   they  are   the   ones  who  will  be   the
                                                              between   parents   before   separation   affect   the   behavior   of   the
        victims of this decision.
                                                              children,   so   the   behavior   of   the   children   turns   into   violent
                                                              behavior   and  the  son   becomes  nervous  and  distracted  most  of
           here   are   some   of   the   serious   consequences   that   divorce   or
                                                              the   time,   and   this   greatly   affects   his   dealings   with   people   in
        separation have for children:
                                                              the future and makes his deal is sharp.
        First:  Dismantling  the  family:   As  when  divorce  occurs,   we  find
                                                              Fifth:   Divorce   affects   the   safety   of   future   generations:   If   we
        some   fathers   going   to   marry   another,  and   some   mothers   go   to
                                                              want   the   next   generation,   it   is   better,   for   us   to   find   ways   to
        marry   another   and   they   did   not   turn   to   their   children,   so   their
                                                              limit   the   increase   in   the   rates   of   divorce,   because   of   the
        children, become alone in life, and in this case the percentage of
                                                              negative effects  causes   on  the  social  and  psychological  life  of
        children  ’s   exposure   to   homelessness   is   high.   Barents,   both   of
                                                              children, which negatively affect future generations
        them   are   busy   in   their   new   lives,   and   there   is   no   care   for
        children, so they try to seek her in the street
                                                              "A message to every father and mother intend to divorce"
        .
                                                              Of course, there is no social relationship without problems and
        Second:   the   psychological   and   social   problems   that   afflict
                                                              disagreements.   The   occurrence   of   some   disagreements
        children:   As   a   result   of   their   parents   ’decision   to   divorce,
                                                              between  spouses  is  a  natural   thing,   but  husbands  must   have   a
        children   are   exposed   to   several   psychological   and   social
                                                              degree  of  overlooking   and  ignoring   these  problems.  This  is  in
        problems,   as   a   result   of   their   belief   that   their   social   life   is   no
                                                              order  for  their  children   to  live  a  calm  and  stable   social  life,  as
        longer   as   perfect   as   it   was   before   their   parents  ’   separation.
                                                              children   need   the   presence   of   parents   together,   either   if   the
        Some of them feel depressed, insecure, internal destabilization,
                                                              parents   cannot   bear   these   problems,   and   life   becomes
        loneliness,   and   that   affects   them  negatively   in  their   social  life.
                                                              impossible   between   them,   and   they   accept   the   decision   to
        Some   children   also   feel   that   their   self-confidence   has   been
                                                              separate,   then   they   must   not   neglect   their  children   and   make
        shaken  after  their   parents  made   this  decision  as  a  result   of  their
                                                              every effort to be with them most of the time, So that they feel
        belief   that   this   will   affect   their  social  status   in  front   of  people,
                                                              safe.
        and  many   of  them  begin   to   think  about   suicide  to  escape  from
                                                              Before   you   think   about   divorce,   think   about   the   misery
        this suffering.
                                                              your children suffer.
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