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Vol.1 No.25, Nov. 2020

Divorce : A Cost Paid By Kids

BILAL GAMAL

Third Level, Political Science

Third: the lack of interest in children by parents :Sometimes,
the lack of attention to children by the parents is a destructive
Recently, divorce rates have increased significantly, This is for
tool that parents give their children without realizing it.
several reasons, including the lack of understanding between
Children begin to integrate into the circle of bad friends due to
married couples, the lack of bearing the burdens of life, the lack
the absence of people to talk to, In addition to their lack of
of responsibility, as well as the existence of problems between
containment ,so we find some children are at risk of
the spouses that make life between them almost impossible.
addiction, abuse, and many other things like that, due to the
And many other reasons, They did not realize the seriousness of
lack of interest on the part of the parents in their children after
the step that they had taken, and they did not pay attention to
divorce. In this way, by making this decision, the parents are
what would happen to their children. The children here are the
putting their children's lives to ruin by their own hands.
ones who will pay the largest share of the price of this decision.
Fourth: The behavior of children is affected negatively as a
In fact, the decision to divorce or separation has many serious
result of divorce: as the problems and conflicts that occur
consequences on children, as they are the ones who will be the
between parents before separation affect the behavior of the
victims of this decision.
children, so the behavior of the children turns into violent
behavior and the son becomes nervous and distracted most of
here are some of the serious consequences that divorce or
the time, and this greatly affects his dealings with people in
separation have for children:
the future and makes his deal is sharp.
First: Dismantling the family: As when divorce occurs, we find
Fifth: Divorce affects the safety of future generations: If we
some fathers going to marry another, and some mothers go to
want the next generation, it is better, for us to find ways to
marry another and they did not turn to their children, so their
limit the increase in the rates of divorce, because of the
children, become alone in life, and in this case the percentage of
negative effects causes on the social and psychological life of
children ’s exposure to homelessness is high. Barents, both of
children, which negatively affect future generations
them are busy in their new lives, and there is no care for
children, so they try to seek her in the street
"A message to every father and mother intend to divorce"
.
Of course, there is no social relationship without problems and
Second: the psychological and social problems that afflict
disagreements. The occurrence of some disagreements
children: As a result of their parents ’decision to divorce,
between spouses is a natural thing, but husbands must have a
children are exposed to several psychological and social
degree of overlooking and ignoring these problems. This is in
problems, as a result of their belief that their social life is no
order for their children to live a calm and stable social life, as
longer as perfect as it was before their parents ’ separation.
children need the presence of parents together, either if the
Some of them feel depressed, insecure, internal destabilization,
parents cannot bear these problems, and life becomes
loneliness, and that affects them negatively in their social life.
impossible between them, and they accept the decision to
Some children also feel that their self-confidence has been
separate, then they must not neglect their children and make
shaken after their parents made this decision as a result of their
every effort to be with them most of the time, So that they feel
belief that this will affect their social status in front of people,
safe.
and many of them begin to think about suicide to escape from
Before you think about divorce, think about the misery
this suffering.
your children suffer.
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