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SOCIAL MEDIA Changing

Khadija Faried Our selves

Usually we are told that we have changed, we have become
continuing this will make you abandoning your principles and
more mature, cheerful and violence or less serious, for example, thus enter into a conflict or duplication of your thoughts, beliefs
but does that stop you to ask yourself if you like this change?
and personality in general.
Does this change negatively affect my behavior , my actions and
Your inability to accept yourself can make you engage in
the way I deal with others? What is the impact of that change on
electronic crimes such as impersonation and may gain you
my mental health? And In this case,How can I deal with it? Or it repugnant characteristics and habits such as violence, hate and
may not stop you because sometimes the seriousness and routine
destructive criticism as a result of self dissatisfaction and the
of life and the activities that we practice daily do not give us a disavowal of your truth and you think with this disavowal that
chance to monitor the development of our personalities ,for you are satisfied but that’s not true ,you may even harm others
better or worse!or to deal also with unwanted changes , Today,
because you think that they have achieved The satisfaction that
social media is occupying a large space between those daily
you are looking for and you will try to be satisfied by removing
activities which affects our personalities greatly due to our daily
this satisfaction from others by removing this satisfaction from
use of them and our involvement in that complicated virtual others by surveillance and finding their faults to exploit in your
world that holds many contradictions and allows you to
destructive criticism of them.
influence others and allows them to influence you too , it makes
you dealing with new patterns of values and different practices Speaking of "surveillance", since social media is an area in
for them and all of this has a great impact on your personality
which it is easy to falsify your identity and reality that might
and thus your mental health may be endangered by these makes you an ideal figure or because of presenting your life
developments.
without thinking about the consequences of that and due to the
obsessive situation in which you live about positive interaction
The question here is about the number of individuals who senses
that has become your primary goal on social media it is possible
this change,its impact on their life and the life of the other that your influence on others may make them obsessed with
people and try to deal with the consequences ,who are able to your ideal life and this obsession may expose you to surveillance
deal with the complicated nature of social media and the
by psychopaths and kidnapping or physically harming .
negative changes they acquire and stop their impact on them and
others that social media is a space to express ourselves, our
opinions and ideas It makes some people disavow their lives, And your feeling that there is always someone who cares about
their true identity and their principles as well, so that they can
your life and your opinions may make you feel that you have the
enjoy the life they want in that virtual community by deceiving right to exercise some authority over their minds and this
and misleading people. appears when you impose your experiences on them and it
makes you have the ability to control their preferences, passions
It is possible that the interactive nature of social media is the and impressions about things and individuals because you are
reason for creating a crisis of psychological satisfaction, as the
the ideal personality that they seek to become like you, you will
positive interaction of people with your content or opinions may
think that you are a judge of the values, issues and trends that
achieve this satisfaction for you and it is possible that the
are appear on social media from time to another because of the
interaction of people with you positively and avoiding negative large number of people who follow you and acknowledge your
interaction and criticisms is your goal from presenting your opinions.
opinions and that makes you giving up your true feelings,
making your personality shallow and you lose its depth and

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