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ELITE Vol.1, Issue 39, January 2022
Vol.1, Issue 39, January

Fixing yourself and the bucket crabs:

Because nowadays self-care is the trend -
hoping it always will be-, figuring it out

with yourself is the key. Whether you are
the escaping or the grasping, take a
glance at your feelings. Do you get angry

and think of hurting others when they
accomplish something you wish you had
accomplished? If yes, then consider

asking yourself “Why do I discourage
others whenever they achieve something
I want?” There are multiple underlying

reasons. For instance, it could be that you
don’t work enough for your goal or that
you are not satisfied enough with your

life, and many others. Your second step

is focusing on your own progress. It is If you happen to be of the second type, the
always the case that we are unique, and escaping type, help yourself enough to lessen

have special qualities of our own. Your the group impact on you, focus on your
uniqueness may help others and let you progress and develop alternate ways of

feel satisfied. defense.
Interestingly, fixing the group can be a great
accomplishment as well. This could be done
through an abundance of methods. Through

leading by example, one can sometimes learn
and try to improve themselves. The process

might take long but, it is worthy.

In conclusion, it is not only the human world
that is too detailed and absurd, it is the

"worlds" around us that are. Mentality fixing
could be one of the hardest and longest
mysteries you are going to solve, but at the

end, it is fixable.

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