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Issue 44

June 2022

Female Divorcees in Rural Areas:

The Stigma and Shattered Dreams

Gehad Yehia, Fourth Level, Political Science

There is no woman on earth who does not wish to give matter on the share hanger.
leadership to a man, and closes her eyes to let him go on Which share do you mean? The share that broke them, or
with her life in peace. And we know that the purpose of the habits and customs that made life more and more
difficult?
marriage is love, to find a tender heart no matter how The problem is not only with the marriage of minors,
narrow the earth is to you, the idea in itself is fair, you which is common in those areas, but the biggest disaster
will find someone to share food and be comfortable lies in the forced marriage, as if it were a commodity that
with in conversation, mind next to mind, and heart tied the guardian must sell to whoever gave the highest profit
to a heart, a hand that heals and a heart that yearns, a for the sold merchandise, as soon as he saw in the
soul and soul that claims Rest assured, a person who applicant some of the specifications that he held in his
feels sociable, knows that he is important and the other imagination that it achieves the supreme perfection of this
believes that he is the most important... person , he agreed to complete the deal without paying
This is what we became familiar with about marriage attention to what this young woman would suffer with
something in which her will had no role, and she finds that
unless your birthplace lies in some villages in rural she is in front of family injustice and societal scrutiny
Egypt, which made marriage a mere fulfillment of without any fairness except in the last years when the law
desire, a violation of innocent childhood, and a grave began to criminalize these acts.
injustice to underage girls who were unable to live It ends up like a bottle lying on the side of the road,
comfortably. To find herself after she was young and thrown by passers-by, and society looks at it with an
deserves nothing but pampering, she became arbitrary and low look, as if it was she who chose this title
responsible for providing care and motherhood for a girl and stuck it to herself, and it was not the circumstances
a few years younger than her, living next to an arrogant that forced her to this misery, to live the rest of her life and
man with all his requirements in food and clothing only. pay the price of a mistake that she has no guilt in .
Let us realize that marriage must be based on the right
And that cycle continues until the noose tightens on that choice, and the most important thing is the idea of
married girl and finds herself falling under the pressure acceptance preceded by affection and mercy in which the
of divorce and the word stuck to her as if she was the two coexist, and there is nothing wrong, dear reader, to
culprit and not the victim leave even a small distance for love, and I do not mean
The public calls her divorcee, as if she chose that love in its satirical cinematic form, in which they are
20 painful end with her own hands. And after all this looking for stories that are only suitable for drama, Two
brokenness occurred in the soul of a girl who has lovers are always laughing.... A life without monument or
nothing to do with the matter except that she is a trouble, and intense immersion in the pleasures of this
world, for love is higher than the mere instinct in the
woman who must listen and obey, we find them hanging presence of a partner, and purer than the mere desire to
the satisfy the instinct.. This is marriage, gentleness and
gentleness, love, strength, bond, and faith in a spirit that
used you to complete the world together...